The Inner Struggle of Wicked: Embracing the True Self Beyond Society’s Expectations

The story of Wicked offers much more than a prequel to The Wizard of Oz. Beneath its dazzling music and fantastical backdrop lies a profound exploration of the inner conflict many women face when striving to live in alignment with their true selves. This struggle is embodied in the contrasting journeys of Glinda and Elphaba—two women who represent different facets of our identity.

Glinda reflects the part of us yearning for societal acceptance. She glitters with charm, carefully curates her image, and is celebrated by the world for her perfection. Glinda’s decisions, much like the masks we wear in our daily lives, are often rooted in the desire to be liked, to fit in, and to gain approval. Her journey shows the sacrifices we make to conform to the expectations placed upon us.

Elphaba, on the other hand, is the truest expression of who we are. She’s passionate, courageous, and fiercely compassionate, embodying the natural protector that lives within many women. But society’s judgment and her perceived flaws—the green skin that sets her apart—drive her to hide this authentic self. How often do we, too, conceal parts of ourselves that we deem unworthy or “ugly,” fearing rejection or ridicule?

Elphaba’s story illustrates a truth we often avoid confronting: our power remains dormant until we embrace every facet of who we are, flaws and all. When Elphaba begins to love herself for her unique gifts and imperfections, her power becomes undeniable. This transformation isn’t just a physical one—she doesn’t fly simply because of magic. She rises because she has finally seen herself through the eyes of the child she once was, the child who needed her to be this version of herself all along.

This moment becomes a culmination of self-love and acceptance. Before Elphaba takes flight in the closing scene, the appearance of her younger self is more than a theatrical flourish; it’s a powerful metaphor. Child Elphaba whispers a silent, “Thank you”—an acknowledgment that the adult version has finally become the protector, the advocate, and the loving presence she always needed. In that moment, she soars, defying gravity not just literally but figuratively, shedding the weight of societal judgment and internalized shame.

Elphaba’s journey reminds us that the parts of ourselves we often suppress—the raw, unfiltered truth of who we are—are the very parts that hold the key to our strength. Her compassion, her courage to stand up for what is right, and her unwavering love for others come from her authenticity, not her ability to fit in. Glinda may be adored, but Elphaba is the one who transforms the world, starting with herself.

As women, we are all Elphaba. Society may favor our Glinda-like qualities, but our true power emerges when we embrace the parts of ourselves that we’ve deemed unworthy. When we choose to stand in our truth, we not only heal ourselves but also set an example for others. We become the person our inner child needed, and through that love, we rise—just like Elphaba—defying the gravity of our own self-doubt and the constraints of societal expectations.

In the end, Wicked is not merely about a misunderstood witch but a profound tale of what it means to live authentically. It’s a reminder that the path to self-acceptance and power is paved not with perfection but with love—for the child we were and the person we’ve become. And when we embrace this, we too can rise, unshackled, and soar.

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